Week 12 - Libation Ceremony

<div class="MsoNormal" style="border: currentColor; margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhM80Yk4Tf1usqkKEPXCXvxt67KIWwe0OoZNH5j5Q_p47AjToaTewRbQfKIggfqn2AdKvgRNfLrUk34enOX0umx6f-s3l1YCqeoLtqCnhUQHxWzGu6ubEH2K4_K7H9TT1rDMh6eiMDbBhBH/s1600/libation.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; cssfloat: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"><img border="0" height="157" mea="true" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhM80Yk4Tf1usqkKEPXCXvxt67KIWwe0OoZNH5j5Q_p47AjToaTewRbQfKIggfqn2AdKvgRNfLrUk34enOX0umx6f-s3l1YCqeoLtqCnhUQHxWzGu6ubEH2K4_K7H9TT1rDMh6eiMDbBhBH/s200/libation.jpg" width="200" /></a><span lang="EN-AU">Welcome to week 12 in our ’52 Rituals/Traditions in 52 Weeks’</span><span lang="EN-AU" style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 10pt;"> </span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="border: currentColor; margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><br /></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span lang="EN-AU">This week we have decided to look at ‘libation’ in ceremony and how you can use it to create an interesting and heart felt ceremony.</span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><br /></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span lang="EN-AU">Some traditions or rituals are not unique to just one culture and are in fact practised in many cultures throughout the world. These rituals are often similar in nature, but may have different relevance or meaning depending on who is practising them. This is certainly true for libation rituals.</span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><br /></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="border: currentColor; margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span lang="EN-AU">The libation ritual is a traditional part of ceremony practised by the Greeks, Romans, Africans and Burmese Buddhists to name only a few. The term ‘libation’ actually means ‘the<span class="st1"><span style="color: #222222;"> pouring of a liquid offering as a religious ritual’ and this liquid may be any number of things, again dependant upon who is performing it.</span></span></span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><br /></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span class="st1"><span lang="EN-AU" style="color: #222222;">In some African cultures, an essential part of any ceremony is the pouring of libation. Sometimes water, but most often a traditional wine is used for the pouring which it is believed shows recognition and thanks to their ancestors and the Gods. A prayer calling all to attend and participate is given by an elder who through this tradition invokes both ancestors and Gods to be present.</span></span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><br /></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span class="st1"><span lang="EN-AU" style="color: #222222;">The Ancient Romans were also big believers in the use of libation rituals in ceremony, usually consisting of wine and perfumed oil, it was considered an act of great worship.</span></span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="border: currentColor; margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><br /></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="border: currentColor; margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span class="st1"><span lang="EN-AU" style="color: #222222;">These days we still see libation rituals used in ceremony and also in showing recognition to those no longer with us. If you live in the United States you may have heard of the term ‘tipping a forty to their memory’ which involves tipping a small amount of liquid (usually liquor) from the glass before drinking, paying respect to and in memory of those no longer with us.</span></span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="border: currentColor; margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><br /></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="border: currentColor; margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span lang="EN-AU">If you are looking for a simple, easy ritual to use in your wedding ceremony that doesn’t cost anything and allows you to word it specifically to recognise something, then a libation ritual is a fabulous idea.</span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="border: currentColor; margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><br /></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="border: currentColor; margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span lang="EN-AU">You could ask the head of either of your families,-a grandmother or grandfather, the celebrant or anyone you wish - to lead the ritual and say a few words as to the sentiment of the ritual. </span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="border: currentColor; margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><br /></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="border: currentColor; margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span lang="EN-AU">An example of this may be where a loved one has passed away or unable to be present and you are looking for a way to acknowledge those unable to be with you. A libation is a simple, yet powerful way to pay your respect and honour their significance.</span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="border: currentColor; margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><br /></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="border: currentColor; margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span lang="EN-AU"><span style="color: magenta;">The Wedding Gurus</span></span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="border: currentColor; margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span lang="EN-AU">xxx</span></div>

Week 12 - Libation Ceremony

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Week 4 – The Giving of the Bride

<div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 10pt;"><span style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS", "sans-serif"; font-size: 10pt; line-height: 115%;">Welcome to ritual number 4 in our ‘52 Rituals/Traditions in 52 weeks’</span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 10pt;"><span style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS", "sans-serif"; font-size: 10pt; line-height: 115%;">We’re pretty sure that all of you would be familiar with this one, but even though you’ve probably seen it done at most wedding ceremonies you have attended, you might be surprised by how many variations there can be to this common tradition.</span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 10pt;"><span style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS", "sans-serif"; font-size: 10pt; line-height: 115%;">The Giving Away of the bride has a long history. Nowadays we often like to make it the perfect occasion when the father- daughter relationship is acknowledged. It also allows the families and friends of the bride and groom show their approval of the marriage. In Roman times though, it was the custom <span style="mso-bidi-font-weight: bold;">for<b> </b></span>a young woman to be under the authority and protection of the man who was the head of her household — this would usually have been her father or elder brother. </span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 10pt;"><span style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS", "sans-serif"; font-size: 10pt; line-height: 115%;">When she married, the responsibility that was theirs, then passed to her husband. This was the origin of the “Giving away” ceremony. Clearly t<span style="mso-bidi-font-weight: bold;">imes </span>certainly have changed but we retain this ancient custom with a somewhat new cultural meaning and that is to honour the role of the father and allow the family and friends to clearly show their support.</span><br /><span style="font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif; font-size: 10pt; line-height: 115%;"><br /></span><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiqFXJVgbX5eUzjNEOmIsmamuAVCYHvd8jlf-woBzCUlNUWJ8lr7QFMJplIFyDIuuKpfaLIyxTSov8XhTgFupruzQbQhlLLYtnY1I1AVv54Wwah3jeurDv4ZapDJgIROerqwWquMjctv1Ll/s600/Giving+of+the+bride+ritual;.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="213" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiqFXJVgbX5eUzjNEOmIsmamuAVCYHvd8jlf-woBzCUlNUWJ8lr7QFMJplIFyDIuuKpfaLIyxTSov8XhTgFupruzQbQhlLLYtnY1I1AVv54Wwah3jeurDv4ZapDJgIROerqwWquMjctv1Ll/s320/Giving+of+the+bride+ritual;.jpg" width="320" /></a></div><span style="font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif; font-size: 10pt; line-height: 115%;"><br /></span><span style="font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif; font-size: 10pt; line-height: 115%;">Some examples of possible wording for the Giving of the Bride:</span></div><div style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><b><span lang="EN-US" style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS", "sans-serif"; font-size: 10pt;">1. Celebrant/Priest addresses person giving bride away: </span></b><span lang="EN-US" style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS", "sans-serif"; font-size: 10pt;">Who brings this woman to be married to this man? </span><br /><span lang="EN-US" style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS", "sans-serif"; font-size: 10pt;"><br /></span></div><div style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><b><span lang="EN-US" style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS", "sans-serif"; font-size: 10pt;">Person replies: </span></b><span lang="EN-US" style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS", "sans-serif"; font-size: 10pt; mso-bidi-font-weight: bold;">I do<b> </b>(He<b> </b>then steps forward and joins the other guests.)<b> </b></span></div><div style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><br /><br /><br /><br /></div><div style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; text-indent: -36pt;"><b><span lang="EN-US" style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS", "sans-serif"; font-size: 10pt;"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;">            </span>2. If both parents are involved, the Celebrant/Priest addresses the guests as follows: </span></b><span lang="EN-US" style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS", "sans-serif"; font-size: 10pt;">Who brings this man to stand beside this woman? </span></div><div style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><b><span lang="EN-US" style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS", "sans-serif"; font-size: 10pt;">Groom’s Parents </span></b><span lang="EN-US" style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS", "sans-serif"; font-size: 10pt;">We do </span></div><div style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><b><span lang="EN-US" style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS", "sans-serif"; font-size: 10pt;">The question is repeated for the </span></b><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span lang="EN-US" style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS", "sans-serif"; font-size: 10pt;">bride’s</span></b><span lang="EN-US" style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS", "sans-serif"; font-size: 10pt;"> <b>parents: </b>Are you willing now and always to support and strengthen this marriage by upholding both Lindsay and Lisa with your love and support? </span></div><div style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span lang="EN-US" style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS", "sans-serif"; font-size: 10pt;">All parents:</span></b><span lang="EN-US" style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS", "sans-serif";"> </span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS", "sans-serif"; font-size: 10pt;">We are</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS", "sans-serif";"> </span><br /><br /></div><div style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; text-indent: -36pt;"><span lang="EN-US" style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS", "sans-serif"; font-size: 10pt;"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;">            </span>3. <b>When the father </b><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">is</b> <b>the giving the bride away, the Celebrant/Priest says: </b>When thinking people conclude what are the real values in life, and come to decide what really matters — it is human relationships. <br />One of the most understated but deepest relationships in human life is that between the caring father and the loving daughter. One of the rare occasions this relationship is acknowledged is at a wedding ceremony. (Insert <i>Father’s name) </i>represents all of us, he particularly represents his family, but today in a special gesture he symbolises his own personal love for is daughter. So mindful of these values I now ask him, <br />— who brings this woman to be married to this man? <br /><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">Father</b></span></div><span style="font-family: "Calibri", "sans-serif"; font-size: 11pt; line-height: 115%; mso-ansi-language: EN-AU; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-bidi-theme-font: minor-bidi; mso-fareast-font-family: Calibri; mso-fareast-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">I do </span>

Week 4 – The Giving of the Bride

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2012 Announcement!!

Okay, here it is <br />We have been thinking long and hard about doing a regular post for 2012, something that would be fun, but informative and that we could all have a bit of a laugh at and yet still get some good and useful information from.<br /><br />Soooooo..... After a lot of thought, input and discussion we have decided to embark on quite a project. <br />For this year we will be taking you around the world (not literally) as we attempt to bring you <br /><br /><b>'52 wedding rituals/traditions in 52 weeks'</b><br /><br /> A little ambitious? Yes probably<br /> Can we pull it off? Not sure, but we are going to give it one he'll of a go! <br /><br />So basically we will be posting 1 ritual/tradition every week in the form of a combination of video blogs, write ups a pictures. These will be from all over the world with some common ones you may have seen and some that will definitely have you laughing. If you have one you could recommend that you would like us to re-enact then send it through to us and we will give it a go. <br /><br />We really hope you will all join us on this journey over the next 52 weeks, because we can't do it without you and we intend to have a great time! <br /><br />Stay tuned for our 1st one coming in the next few days. Thank you all for sticking with us so far and here's to an amazing year ahead, cheers.<br /><br />The Wedding Gurus

2012 Announcement!!

Okay, here it is We have been thinking long and hard about doing a regular post for 2012, something that would be fun, but informative and t...

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