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Ceremony Introduction Alternatives

<span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Since posting different ceremony formats, complete wording for a full ceremony and lots of rituals and traitions we have had so many emails and comments from all of you asking for variations, other ideas and helpful hints. SO, we've put pen to paper and written a couple of introduction variations and a giving of the bride that you may want to use as a base when thinking about your wedding ceremony wording.</span><br /><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><br /></span><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Let us know what you think!</span><br /><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><br /></span><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><u><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Introduction 1<o:p></o:p></span></u></b><br /><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><br /></span><br /><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Welcome everyone; we are here to today to bear witness to the marriage of John and Leanne. They are grateful for your attendance and honoured to have you as their guest as they pledge their commitment to one another.<o:p></o:p></span></div><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><br /></span><br /><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">The ‘wedding’ is not over once the dress makes its way back into the box and the last remnants of the cake are eaten. The ‘wedding’ continues, it flows on into the marriage; the day to day experiences that become the life long memories for this couple. The happiness, the strength, the mutual love and sometimes the struggle.<o:p></o:p></span></div><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><br /></span><br /><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">‘Marriage’ becomes a bond as strong as the gold used to fashion the rings that each will today place on the others finger. As sure as the sun will rise each morning and set every evening without exception, so will your marriage partner be as constant.<o:p></o:p></span></div><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><br /></span><br /><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">The vows that are taken during a wedding ceremony are often no longer confined to or concern themselves with who objects or whether our marriage partner will obey. They simply ask the two individuals present to declare that when they come together on this day, with the one they have chosen to remain with for life, that it be just as sure as that sun rising and they remain just as constant and full of love as they could possibly ever imagine being.<o:p></o:p></span></div><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><br /></span><br /><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Marriage is not a guarantee that everlasting happiness will ensue. It is not a signed contract that your marriage partner will never again make your heart ache or that you will never feel alone or worried, <i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">but</i>……. It is an absolute declaration from you John, to Leanne and from you Leanne to John, as you stand before us today, that you are willing to risk it all to be for the other, that ever constant rising sun.<o:p></o:p></span></div><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><br /></span><br /><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><o:p> </o:p><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><u>Introduction 2<o:p></o:p></u></b></span></div><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><br /></span><br /><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">On behalf of Matthew and Sarah, I would like to welcome you here today. I’d also like to thank you for taking the time out from your busy lives to share in a moment that is special and life altering for the couple who stand before you today.<o:p></o:p></span></div><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><br /></span><br /><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Among the noise and clutter of every day life, the ringing of phones, the shuffling of papers , the hurrying from place to place, love butts in. It makes us stop, if only for a few moments, we stop and take a breath and have the opportunity to remind ourselves of the things that really matter in life. We get to be a part of something that will be captured in time for ever.<o:p></o:p></span></div><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><br /></span><br /><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">As Matthew and Sarah stand apart from the rest of you today, they have invited you to share in their moment. To see them make their vows to love and care for one another for the rest of their lives and take the next step in their journey together as a married couple.<o:p></o:p></span></div><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><br /></span><br /><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">As their family and friends, you will make wishes for them as you look on; wishes of good luck and good fortune, happiness in whichever form it may come and as you, Matthew and Sarah, stand here today, in front of all of those who have a special place in your life, may you feel those good wishes and know that you are truly loved and supported.<o:p></o:p></span></div><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><br /></span><br /><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Marriage is a road not taken lightly, but it is a journey made easier when you are surrounded by love and support.<o:p></o:p></span></div><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><br /></span><br /><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">On this day, the day of your marriage, we wish for you only good things and hope that those good things will be found in a life that is spent together.<o:p></o:p></span></div><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><br /></span><br /><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><u><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Giving of the bride option 1<o:p></o:p></span></u></b></div><br />  <div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">Celebrant:</b> Maria arrived today accompanied by her two sons Ryan and Brett. (add in person eg. Brother, both parents etc)<o:p></o:p></span></div><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><br /></span><br /><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">As a woman of her own mind and control over her own choices, I need not ask in the traditional sense, ‘who <i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">gives</i> this woman’ as she belongs to no one but herself and therefore cannot be ‘<i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">given</i>’ or ‘<i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">taken’</i> . I ask her simply “Maria, have you come of your own free will, with love in your heart?”<o:p></o:p></span></div><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><br /></span><br /><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">Maria:</b> “Yes, I have”<o:p></o:p></span></div><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><br /></span><br /><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">To her escort/s</b> “And on behalf of her family and friends, do you bring with you their blessings?”<o:p></o:p></span></div><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><br /></span><br /><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">Escort/s:</b> ‘Yes I/we come with her family’s blessings”<o:p></o:p></span></div><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><br /></span><br /><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">Celebrant:</b> “Thank you.” (Escort/s join the other guests)</span><o:p></o:p></div>

Ceremony Introduction Alternatives

Since posting different ceremony formats, complete wording for a full ceremony and lots of rituals and traitions we have had so many emails ...

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Raw emotion as Groom sees his gorgeous Bride

<br /> <br /><div class="MsoNormal">As a celebrant, I am lucky enough to get to spend time with each couple in the lead up to their wedding day. Getting to know them, planning their ceremony and working out the right wording takes time and it is during this time that I usually get a real sense of who they are and how they ‘fit’ together as a couple. </div><div class="MsoNormal"><br /></div><div class="MsoNormal">At some stage in this process we usually get the part where we either have a rehearsal or at least a run through of what will happen on the day and where everyone will stand. This is usually fun and exciting, but I have found that despite going over all the details, it in no way prepares them for the explosion of emotion and love they often feel overcome by at the very moment they see each other on the day.</div><div class="MsoNormal"><br /></div><table cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" class="tr-caption-container" style="float: right; margin-left: 1em; text-align: right;"><tbody><tr><td style="text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjyJQ2DX8LXsUyO89q5vj9vNdFP_mvd6DuyT85UWsxy1FHFRYRCsGwCP8TMcMzPovYWKq304ssfC5S5IiSH3Ca5kuAvuplrZkwkD3bgo3a_EchzWEzFP9Ps6jufSNuMsrklUdD0eEWSYddR/s1600/Groom-seeing-bride-walk-down-the-aisle.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;"><img border="0" height="282" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjyJQ2DX8LXsUyO89q5vj9vNdFP_mvd6DuyT85UWsxy1FHFRYRCsGwCP8TMcMzPovYWKq304ssfC5S5IiSH3Ca5kuAvuplrZkwkD3bgo3a_EchzWEzFP9Ps6jufSNuMsrklUdD0eEWSYddR/s400/Groom-seeing-bride-walk-down-the-aisle.jpg" width="400" /></a></td></tr><tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">Photo by <a href="http://www.truephotography.com/">www.truephotography.com</a></td><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;"> <br /><div class="MsoNormal"><span lang="EN-AU" style="color: #222222; display: none; font-family: Arial; mso-ansi-language: EN-AU; mso-hide: all;">truephotography.com</span></div>  <br /><div class="MsoNormal"><span lang="EN-AU" style="color: #222222; display: none; font-family: Arial; mso-ansi-language: EN-AU; mso-hide: all;">truephotography.com</span></div></td></tr></tbody></table><div class="MsoNormal">The celebrant usually arrives at the venue at least half an hour in advance on the day in order to set up and prepare documents etc. The groom and his groomsmen are usually wandering around, greeting guests as they arrive and looking generally nervous! </div><div class="MsoNormal"><br /></div><div class="MsoNormal">As the moment draws near and tensions build, the bride finally arrives and as I usher the groom and groomsmen into position. The nerves and anticipation of the guests are palpable.</div><div class="MsoNormal"><br /></div><div class="MsoNormal">As we wait the groomsmen are usually giving the groom grief, teasing him and making jokes, but as the bride appears from whatever direction she enters, the mood changes. All eyes are on his bride and I would have to say that in about 80 percent of cases, the groom cries. Not sobbing or bawling, but tears of joy, of gratitude and of how lucky he feels. This is particularly true when the couple have children and the children enter in front of the bride. Even the biggest, blokiest of them all usually succumb (and in fact are often the softest!) Its a beautiful moment and one that I feel so honoured to share with the couple. </div><div class="MsoNormal"><br /></div><div class="MsoNormal">I recently came across a fantastic post on Buzzfeed which really captured this moment perfectly. 24 pictures that capture this very moment.</div><div class="MsoNormal"><br /></div><div class="MsoNormal"></div><div class="MsoNormal"> </div><div class="MsoNormal"><a href="http://www.buzzfeed.com/mattbellassai/24-grooms-seeing-their-brides-for-the-first-time-6z51">http://www.buzzfeed.com/mattbellassai/24-grooms-seeing-their-brides-for-the-first-time-6z51</a></div>   <br /><div class="MsoNormal">The Wedding Gurus</div><div class="MsoNormal">xxx</div>

Raw emotion as Groom sees his gorgeous Bride

As a celebrant, I am lucky enough to get to spend time with each couple in the lead up to their wedding day. Getting to know them, planning...

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