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Raw emotion as Groom sees his gorgeous Bride

<br /> <br /><div class="MsoNormal">As a celebrant, I am lucky enough to get to spend time with each couple in the lead up to their wedding day. Getting to know them, planning their ceremony and working out the right wording takes time and it is during this time that I usually get a real sense of who they are and how they ‘fit’ together as a couple. </div><div class="MsoNormal"><br /></div><div class="MsoNormal">At some stage in this process we usually get the part where we either have a rehearsal or at least a run through of what will happen on the day and where everyone will stand. This is usually fun and exciting, but I have found that despite going over all the details, it in no way prepares them for the explosion of emotion and love they often feel overcome by at the very moment they see each other on the day.</div><div class="MsoNormal"><br /></div><table cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" class="tr-caption-container" style="float: right; margin-left: 1em; text-align: right;"><tbody><tr><td style="text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjyJQ2DX8LXsUyO89q5vj9vNdFP_mvd6DuyT85UWsxy1FHFRYRCsGwCP8TMcMzPovYWKq304ssfC5S5IiSH3Ca5kuAvuplrZkwkD3bgo3a_EchzWEzFP9Ps6jufSNuMsrklUdD0eEWSYddR/s1600/Groom-seeing-bride-walk-down-the-aisle.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;"><img border="0" height="282" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjyJQ2DX8LXsUyO89q5vj9vNdFP_mvd6DuyT85UWsxy1FHFRYRCsGwCP8TMcMzPovYWKq304ssfC5S5IiSH3Ca5kuAvuplrZkwkD3bgo3a_EchzWEzFP9Ps6jufSNuMsrklUdD0eEWSYddR/s400/Groom-seeing-bride-walk-down-the-aisle.jpg" width="400" /></a></td></tr><tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">Photo by <a href="http://www.truephotography.com/">www.truephotography.com</a></td><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;"> <br /><div class="MsoNormal"><span lang="EN-AU" style="color: #222222; display: none; font-family: Arial; mso-ansi-language: EN-AU; mso-hide: all;">truephotography.com</span></div>  <br /><div class="MsoNormal"><span lang="EN-AU" style="color: #222222; display: none; font-family: Arial; mso-ansi-language: EN-AU; mso-hide: all;">truephotography.com</span></div></td></tr></tbody></table><div class="MsoNormal">The celebrant usually arrives at the venue at least half an hour in advance on the day in order to set up and prepare documents etc. The groom and his groomsmen are usually wandering around, greeting guests as they arrive and looking generally nervous! </div><div class="MsoNormal"><br /></div><div class="MsoNormal">As the moment draws near and tensions build, the bride finally arrives and as I usher the groom and groomsmen into position. The nerves and anticipation of the guests are palpable.</div><div class="MsoNormal"><br /></div><div class="MsoNormal">As we wait the groomsmen are usually giving the groom grief, teasing him and making jokes, but as the bride appears from whatever direction she enters, the mood changes. All eyes are on his bride and I would have to say that in about 80 percent of cases, the groom cries. Not sobbing or bawling, but tears of joy, of gratitude and of how lucky he feels. This is particularly true when the couple have children and the children enter in front of the bride. Even the biggest, blokiest of them all usually succumb (and in fact are often the softest!) Its a beautiful moment and one that I feel so honoured to share with the couple. </div><div class="MsoNormal"><br /></div><div class="MsoNormal">I recently came across a fantastic post on Buzzfeed which really captured this moment perfectly. 24 pictures that capture this very moment.</div><div class="MsoNormal"><br /></div><div class="MsoNormal"></div><div class="MsoNormal"> </div><div class="MsoNormal"><a href="http://www.buzzfeed.com/mattbellassai/24-grooms-seeing-their-brides-for-the-first-time-6z51">http://www.buzzfeed.com/mattbellassai/24-grooms-seeing-their-brides-for-the-first-time-6z51</a></div>   <br /><div class="MsoNormal">The Wedding Gurus</div><div class="MsoNormal">xxx</div>

Raw emotion as Groom sees his gorgeous Bride

As a celebrant, I am lucky enough to get to spend time with each couple in the lead up to their wedding day. Getting to know them, planning...

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52 Rituals/Traditions - Announcement

<div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span lang="EN-AU">Over the next 5 weeks we are going to be doing something a little different in our ‘52 Rituals/Traditions in 52 Weeks’. </span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><br /></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span lang="EN-AU">Our next 5 posts will be some lesser known and more culturally diverse rituals from all over the world. </span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><br /></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span lang="EN-AU">Some of these are century old customs and others are modern versions of long standing cultural traditions. </span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><br /></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span lang="EN-AU">Many you may not have heard of before, but they are gorgeous and rich in their depth and sentiment and we really wanted to explore some of these ideas despite the fact that they may be a little more ‘out there’ than many would normally consider. </span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><br /></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span lang="EN-AU">Remember, any tradition or custom can be modified to suit your particular use for it, however it is always a good idea to do your best to keep enough of the original meaning so as to be respectful to the culture to which it belongs. Rituals mean a great deal to those who practise them so we should always be mindful of this.</span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><br /></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span lang="EN-AU">We are really looking forward to bringing you some really different ideas over the coming weeks and hope that you will join us in exploring some fun ideas.</span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><br /></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span lang="EN-AU">The Wedding Guru’s</span></div>

52 Rituals/Traditions - Announcement

Over the next 5 weeks we are going to be doing something a little different in our ‘52 Rituals/Traditions in 52 Weeks’. Our next 5 posts wil...

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The History of Valentines Day

<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhaJY7zIF53a8xgFKFIXwsDDyha9VAs54q3oWJaUtY46U3IYOOwHkEIxM2hBrm_NyIvCxV6W1M_Y2d3YrpfRrUyjr9r_Fd-0WZjsqCPvvkM4WlqgxGczw5qNOIUNTvNEfrGK1_nqR6bXX3-/s1600/Valentines+day+man+and+woman.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="235" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhaJY7zIF53a8xgFKFIXwsDDyha9VAs54q3oWJaUtY46U3IYOOwHkEIxM2hBrm_NyIvCxV6W1M_Y2d3YrpfRrUyjr9r_Fd-0WZjsqCPvvkM4WlqgxGczw5qNOIUNTvNEfrGK1_nqR6bXX3-/s320/Valentines+day+man+and+woman.jpg" width="320" /></a><span style="color: black; font-family: "Microsoft PhagsPa", "sans-serif";"></span><br /><span style="color: black; font-family: "Microsoft PhagsPa", "sans-serif";">Every year, the fourteenth day of February sees all of us, no matter what age or sex, scurrying about organising surprises, no matter how big or small and presenting our loved ones with flowers, chocolates and whatever other treat or gift we can think of to show our love. </span><br /><br /><div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 115%; margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span style="color: black; font-family: "Microsoft PhagsPa", "sans-serif";">Every table in every good restaurant is usually taken well in advance and God help the poor boyfriend, husband or fiancée who didn’t get a chance to shop! </span></div><br /><div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 115%; margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span style="color: black; font-family: "Microsoft PhagsPa", "sans-serif";">While we give cards and gifts and hope we have someone care enough about us to leave a little surprise the history of St Valentines day is actually very sweet and deserves some recognition. </span></div><br /><div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 115%; margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span style="color: black; font-family: "Microsoft PhagsPa", "sans-serif";">Valentines day, some say, originates from </span><span style="font-family: "Microsoft PhagsPa", "sans-serif";">a bishop named Valentine, who was stationed in the <place w:st="on">Roman Empire</place>. At that time the Emperor was Claudius II, who took it upon himself to decide that men who were not yet married actually made better soldiers than did the ones with wives and families.</span></div><br /><div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 115%; margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span style="font-family: "Microsoft PhagsPa", "sans-serif";">It was this belief that brought about his decision to make it a rule of law that young men could not marry. Such an outrageous decision caused distress for so many young men and their sweethearts that round 270 A.D., it was bishop Valentine who took great pity on these poor and lonely soldiers who were pining for their loves and he began performing secret marriages against the ruling of the Emperor.</span></div><br /><div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 115%; margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span style="font-family: "Microsoft PhagsPa", "sans-serif";">Once the secret marriages were found out Claudius II was enraged and jailed Valentine. While imprisoned Claudius II began his attempts to convert Valentine insisting that he worship only the Roman Gods, but Valentine refused and Instead, he began his own campaign to convert Claudius to Christianity.</span></div><br /><div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 115%; margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span style="font-family: "Microsoft PhagsPa", "sans-serif";">Valentine was sentenced to be executed on February 24, 270. <br /><br />There is also another version of the history of Valentines Day which tells a more romantic side to the story (which we all love of course!)</span></div><br /><div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 115%; margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span style="font-family: "Microsoft PhagsPa", "sans-serif";">While imprisoned, Valentine fell in love with his jailer’s daughter. Just before his death, he sent his beloved a note telling her of his love and at the end the signature read “from your Valentine.” With the tale of deceit, romance and death, those who knew the story began to talk of the demise of Valentine and over time his fame was far reaching. <br /><br />Bishop Valentine, having not only sacrificed his own life to help the young couples in love, also overcame the reality of his predicament to fall in love with his executioners daughter, became what a “Patron Saint” of love. <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>As time passed his legend lived on and many considered him the patron or spiritual overseer of an annual festival held on the 14<sup>th</sup> of February, in which young couples would give cards of love and affection to those they were not only already in love with, but to those they wished to date.</span></div><br /><div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 115%; margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span style="font-family: "Microsoft PhagsPa", "sans-serif";">There are even Valentine cards in museums worldwide that date back to 1415. <br /><br />we will leave you on this day of celebrating the uniqueness and beauty of love with this:</span></div><div style="text-align: center;"><span lang="EN-US" style="font-family: "Microsoft PhagsPa", "sans-serif"; font-size: 14pt;"><br /><i><span style="font-size: small;">Let me not to the marriage of true minds Admit impediments.</span></i></span></div><br /><div align="center" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; text-align: center;"><i><span lang="EN-US" style="font-family: "Microsoft PhagsPa", "sans-serif";">Love is not love which alters when it alteration finds,</span></i></div><br /><div align="center" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; text-align: center;"><i><span lang="EN-US" style="font-family: "Microsoft PhagsPa", "sans-serif";">Or bends with the remover to remove: <br />0, no! it is an ever-fixed mark, that looks on tempests and is never shaken;</span></i></div><br /><div align="center" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; text-align: center;"><i><span lang="EN-US" style="font-family: "Microsoft PhagsPa", "sans-serif";">It is the star to every wandering bark,</span></i></div><br /><div align="center" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; text-align: center;"><i><span lang="EN-US" style="font-family: "Microsoft PhagsPa", "sans-serif";">Whose worth’s unknown, although his height be taken. <br />Love’s not time’s fool, though rosy lips and cheeks <br />Within his bending sickle’s compass come;</span></i></div><br /><div align="center" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; text-align: center;"><i><span lang="EN-US" style="font-family: "Microsoft PhagsPa", "sans-serif";">Love alters not with his brief hours and weeks, but bears it out even to the edge of doom.</span></i></div><br /><div align="center" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; text-align: center;"><i><span lang="EN-US" style="font-family: "Microsoft PhagsPa", "sans-serif"; font-size: 14pt;"><span style="font-size: small;">If this be error and upon me proved, I never writ, nor no man ever loved.</span></span></i></div><br /><div align="center" class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 110%; margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; text-align: center;"><br /></div><br /><div align="center" class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 110%; margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; text-align: center;"><span style="font-family: "Microsoft PhagsPa", "sans-serif"; font-size: 11pt; line-height: 110%;">Sonnet 116 by William Shakespeare</span><span lang="EN-US" style="color: black; font-family: "Verdana", "sans-serif"; font-size: 11pt; line-height: 110%; mso-ansi-language: EN-US;"></span></div>

The History of Valentines Day

Every year, the fourteenth day of February sees all of us, no matter what age or sex, scurrying about organising surprises, no matter how bi...

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