Week 23 - 52 Rituals/Traditions in 52 Weeks

<div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-ansi-language: EN-US;"><span style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Acknowledgement of the traditional owners of the land<o:p></o:p></span></span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"></span><br /></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-ansi-language: EN-US;"><span style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">I thought I might share this with you as I have been on occassion asked to begin a ceremony with an acknowledgement of the traditional owners of the land upon which we have stood.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"></span><br /></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span lang="EN-US" style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; mso-ansi-language: EN-US;">An acknowledgement is a great way of paying respect to those who have come before us and can be done whether or not you have an indigenous background. The two examples here are from one particular area, using specific groups, but wherever you are in the world, you can easily use similar wording to pay respect and honour the traditional owners of the land on which you stand.</span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"></span><br /></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span lang="EN-US" style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; mso-ansi-language: EN-US;">It is believed that paying tribute brings good luck by ensuring that you are beginning on a positive note.</span><br /><span lang="EN-US" style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; mso-ansi-language: EN-US;"><br /></span></div><div align="center" class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="http://www.travel4kids.com.au/wp-content/uploads/2013/02/ayers-rock.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="211" src="http://www.travel4kids.com.au/wp-content/uploads/2013/02/ayers-rock.jpg" width="320" /></a></div></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 11pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US;">“</span><span style="font-size: 11pt;">We acknowledge and respect the traditional custodians whose ancestral lands we are meeting upon here today. We acknowledge the deep feelings of attachment and relationship of Aboriginal peoples to country. We also pay respects to the cultural authority of Aboriginal peoples visiting/attending from other areas of South Australia/Australia present here.”</span></span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"></span><br /></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 11pt;">OR</span></b></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"></span><br /></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 11pt;">“We would like to acknowledge this land that we meet on today is the traditional lands of the Kaurna people and that we respect their spiritual relationship with their country. We also acknowledge the Kaurna people as the custodians of the greater <st1:city w:st="on"><st1:place w:st="on">Adelaide</st1:place></st1:city> region and that their cultural and heritage beliefs are still important to the living Kaurna people today.”</span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"></span><br /></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"></span><br /></div><span style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">If you are thinking of adding something like this to your ceremony, or are assisting a couple who would like to have something similar included, be sure to check the details of the traditional owners of the land that you will be performing the ceremony on. </span><br /><span style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"></span><br /><span style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Also check out one of our previous rituals/traditions - a traditional smoking ceremony.</span><br /><span style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"></span><br /><span style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">The Wedding Gurus</span>

Week 23 - 52 Rituals/Traditions in 52 Weeks

Acknowledgement of the traditional owners of the land I thought I might share this with you as I have been on occassion asked to begin a cer...

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Week 6 - Traditional Smoking Ceremony

<span style="font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><span style="color: #333333; font-family: Arial, sans-serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: black; font-family: Arial;">Welcome to <strong><em><span style="color: purple;"><u>week 6</u></span></em></strong> of our <span style="color: purple;"><strong><em>'</em><em><u>52 Traditions / Rituals in 52 weeks'</u></em></strong><span style="color: black;"> this week we are bringing to you a </span></span><span style="color: purple;"><strong><u>'Traditional Smoking<em> Ceremony'</em></u></strong></span><span style="color: black;">. </span></span></span></span><br /><span style="font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><span style="color: #333333; font-family: Arial, sans-serif;"><br /></span></span><br /><span style="font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><span style="color: #333333; font-family: Arial, sans-serif;">Indigenous Australian culture and its people are rich in ceremonial tradition and spiritual connection to their land. It is their spiritual connection to this land as ‘Mother’ that makes their ceremonies, rituals and traditions so absolutely spellbinding and magnificent. It is the perfect ritual to incorporate into a wedding ceremony.</span><span style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif;"><o:p></o:p></span></span><br /><span style="font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"> </span><br /><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span style="font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><span style="color: #333333; font-family: Arial, sans-serif;">A traditional ‘Smoking’ involves bringing together various native plants either in a fire or using a smudge stick and smoldering them to produce smoke. It is believed among indigenous Australians, that this smoke has cleansing and healing properties and also has the added ability to ward off any bad spirits that may be lurking around. Although performed at many events including building openings, births and deaths, it is a wonderful way of beginning a wedding ceremony, allowing the couple to go into the marriage feeling cleansed and free, with no bad spirits to bring them bad luck.</span><span style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif;"><o:p></o:p></span></span></div><span style="font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"> </span><br /><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span style="font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><span style="color: #333333; font-family: Arial, sans-serif;">I (Susan) was lucky enough to see a ‘Smoking’ ceremony performed by an Aboriginal celebrant from the Northern Territory at a celebrant conference here in Adelaide a few years ago and its power was amazing. I immediately fell in love with the symbolism behind the ritual and its wonderful cleansing power.</span><span style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif;"><o:p></o:p></span></span></div><span style="font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"> </span><br /><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span style="font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><span style="color: #333333; font-family: Arial, sans-serif;">There are a few options for conducting a smoking ritual as part of a wedding ceremony, however as many of us live in the city it can be difficult to find an adequate place to light a fire and we may need to consider an alternative.</span><span style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif;"><o:p></o:p></span></span></div><span style="font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"> </span><br /><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span style="font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><span style="color: #333333; font-family: Arial, sans-serif;">Firstly, a ‘Smoking’ may be conducted by placing the chosen leaves on a small fire perhaps in a fire resistant trough or bowl and then allowing the smoke to cover the bride and groom and the other participants’ bodies, ridding them of what is not needed. The smoke can then be fanned around the area with the intention of also cleansing it before the marriage takes place. </span><span style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif;"><o:p></o:p></span></span></div><span style="font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"> </span><br /><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span style="font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><span style="color: #333333; font-family: Arial, sans-serif;">The couple and their guests may feel a sense of leaving behind any troubles and beginning something new and the couple may like the Celebrant to say a few words about the significance of the smoking. There is no specific wording, but it is important to ask the couple what it means to them.</span><span style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif;"><o:p></o:p></span></span></div><span style="font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"> </span><br /><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhAS7L564wRayJ-XWBkbSaKd6CWWKAfWE6fV34K7vDfvmay3HEFzm8Xjy22sZBrjYWP1TrP91Wy4Sd0KlQYWcd6U6QuObfrHJdyFlQb1rktLvbNK2K9EuyPGqYWSF5BueIOBxDnscRdjsje/s1600/Aboriginal+Smoking+Ceremony+Weddings.JPG" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="148" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhAS7L564wRayJ-XWBkbSaKd6CWWKAfWE6fV34K7vDfvmay3HEFzm8Xjy22sZBrjYWP1TrP91Wy4Sd0KlQYWcd6U6QuObfrHJdyFlQb1rktLvbNK2K9EuyPGqYWSF5BueIOBxDnscRdjsje/s200/Aboriginal+Smoking+Ceremony+Weddings.JPG" width="200" /></a><span style="font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><span style="color: #333333; font-family: Arial, sans-serif;"></span></span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span style="font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><span style="color: #333333; font-family: Arial, sans-serif;">Another option is using a ‘Smudge stick’ (pictured left) which is a bundle of dried herbs, (quite often white sage and incorporating some other herbs or spices such as lavender and juniper, which give a pleasant odour when burnt). These are then bound into a small bundle with string and dried to later be used for the wedding ceremony. The ‘Smoking’ is conducted in much the same way as outlined above, however the celebrant may walk around the area spreading the smoke and wave the stick around the couple in order to cover them. Again the couple may like the celebrant to say a few words about the significance.</span><span style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif;"><o:p></o:p></span></span></div><span style="font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"> </span><br /><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><br /></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span style="font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><span style="color: #333333; font-family: Arial, sans-serif;">Conducting a traditional ‘Smoking’ is a great way of incorporating ritual in ceremony and regardless of your background or heritage, it’s significance crosses all boundaries of race or religion. If you are conducting a wedding ceremony in Australia or you are a bride or groom considering using a smoking as part of your ceremony, you may also like to begin the ceremony by paying tribute to the traditional owners of the land you are standing on. What a great way to enter your married life, with good luck, health and a clean slate. Only good can come of it!</span><span style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif;"><o:p></o:p></span></span></div><span style="font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"> </span><br /><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span style="color: #333333; font-family: Arial, sans-serif;"><span style="font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Note: Smudge sticks can usually be purchased from stores that supply religious or ceremonial items or they can be made easily using fresh herbs. There are lots of instructional videos available on the internet.</span></span><span style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13.5pt;"><o:p></o:p></span><br /><span style="color: #333333; font-family: Arial, sans-serif;"><span style="font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><br /></span></span><br /><span style="color: #333333; font-family: Arial, sans-serif;"><span style="font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">The Wedding Gurus</span></span></div>

Week 6 - Traditional Smoking Ceremony

Welcome to  week 6  of our  ' 52 Traditions / Rituals in 52 weeks'  this week we are bringing to you a 'Traditional Smoking  Cer...

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The History of Valentines Day

<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhaJY7zIF53a8xgFKFIXwsDDyha9VAs54q3oWJaUtY46U3IYOOwHkEIxM2hBrm_NyIvCxV6W1M_Y2d3YrpfRrUyjr9r_Fd-0WZjsqCPvvkM4WlqgxGczw5qNOIUNTvNEfrGK1_nqR6bXX3-/s1600/Valentines+day+man+and+woman.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="235" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhaJY7zIF53a8xgFKFIXwsDDyha9VAs54q3oWJaUtY46U3IYOOwHkEIxM2hBrm_NyIvCxV6W1M_Y2d3YrpfRrUyjr9r_Fd-0WZjsqCPvvkM4WlqgxGczw5qNOIUNTvNEfrGK1_nqR6bXX3-/s320/Valentines+day+man+and+woman.jpg" width="320" /></a><span style="color: black; font-family: "Microsoft PhagsPa", "sans-serif";"></span><br /><span style="color: black; font-family: "Microsoft PhagsPa", "sans-serif";">Every year, the fourteenth day of February sees all of us, no matter what age or sex, scurrying about organising surprises, no matter how big or small and presenting our loved ones with flowers, chocolates and whatever other treat or gift we can think of to show our love. </span><br /><br /><div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 115%; margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span style="color: black; font-family: "Microsoft PhagsPa", "sans-serif";">Every table in every good restaurant is usually taken well in advance and God help the poor boyfriend, husband or fiancée who didn’t get a chance to shop! </span></div><br /><div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 115%; margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span style="color: black; font-family: "Microsoft PhagsPa", "sans-serif";">While we give cards and gifts and hope we have someone care enough about us to leave a little surprise the history of St Valentines day is actually very sweet and deserves some recognition. </span></div><br /><div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 115%; margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span style="color: black; font-family: "Microsoft PhagsPa", "sans-serif";">Valentines day, some say, originates from </span><span style="font-family: "Microsoft PhagsPa", "sans-serif";">a bishop named Valentine, who was stationed in the <place w:st="on">Roman Empire</place>. At that time the Emperor was Claudius II, who took it upon himself to decide that men who were not yet married actually made better soldiers than did the ones with wives and families.</span></div><br /><div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 115%; margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span style="font-family: "Microsoft PhagsPa", "sans-serif";">It was this belief that brought about his decision to make it a rule of law that young men could not marry. Such an outrageous decision caused distress for so many young men and their sweethearts that round 270 A.D., it was bishop Valentine who took great pity on these poor and lonely soldiers who were pining for their loves and he began performing secret marriages against the ruling of the Emperor.</span></div><br /><div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 115%; margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span style="font-family: "Microsoft PhagsPa", "sans-serif";">Once the secret marriages were found out Claudius II was enraged and jailed Valentine. While imprisoned Claudius II began his attempts to convert Valentine insisting that he worship only the Roman Gods, but Valentine refused and Instead, he began his own campaign to convert Claudius to Christianity.</span></div><br /><div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 115%; margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span style="font-family: "Microsoft PhagsPa", "sans-serif";">Valentine was sentenced to be executed on February 24, 270. <br /><br />There is also another version of the history of Valentines Day which tells a more romantic side to the story (which we all love of course!)</span></div><br /><div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 115%; margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span style="font-family: "Microsoft PhagsPa", "sans-serif";">While imprisoned, Valentine fell in love with his jailer’s daughter. Just before his death, he sent his beloved a note telling her of his love and at the end the signature read “from your Valentine.” With the tale of deceit, romance and death, those who knew the story began to talk of the demise of Valentine and over time his fame was far reaching. <br /><br />Bishop Valentine, having not only sacrificed his own life to help the young couples in love, also overcame the reality of his predicament to fall in love with his executioners daughter, became what a “Patron Saint” of love. <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>As time passed his legend lived on and many considered him the patron or spiritual overseer of an annual festival held on the 14^th of February, in which young couples would give cards of love and affection to those they were not only already in love with, but to those they wished to date.</span></div><br /><div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 115%; margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span style="font-family: "Microsoft PhagsPa", "sans-serif";">There are even Valentine cards in museums worldwide that date back to 1415. <br /><br />we will leave you on this day of celebrating the uniqueness and beauty of love with this:</span></div><div style="text-align: center;"><span lang="EN-US" style="font-family: "Microsoft PhagsPa", "sans-serif"; font-size: 14pt;"><br /><i><span style="font-size: small;">Let me not to the marriage of true minds Admit impediments.</span></i></span></div><br /><div align="center" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; text-align: center;"><i><span lang="EN-US" style="font-family: "Microsoft PhagsPa", "sans-serif";">Love is not love which alters when it alteration finds,</span></i></div><br /><div align="center" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; text-align: center;"><i><span lang="EN-US" style="font-family: "Microsoft PhagsPa", "sans-serif";">Or bends with the remover to remove: <br />0, no! it is an ever-fixed mark, that looks on tempests and is never shaken;</span></i></div><br /><div align="center" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; text-align: center;"><i><span lang="EN-US" style="font-family: "Microsoft PhagsPa", "sans-serif";">It is the star to every wandering bark,</span></i></div><br /><div align="center" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; text-align: center;"><i><span lang="EN-US" style="font-family: "Microsoft PhagsPa", "sans-serif";">Whose worth’s unknown, although his height be taken. <br />Love’s not time’s fool, though rosy lips and cheeks <br />Within his bending sickle’s compass come;</span></i></div><br /><div align="center" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; text-align: center;"><i><span lang="EN-US" style="font-family: "Microsoft PhagsPa", "sans-serif";">Love alters not with his brief hours and weeks, but bears it out even to the edge of doom.</span></i></div><br /><div align="center" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; text-align: center;"><i><span lang="EN-US" style="font-family: "Microsoft PhagsPa", "sans-serif"; font-size: 14pt;"><span style="font-size: small;">If this be error and upon me proved, I never writ, nor no man ever loved.</span></span></i></div><br /><div align="center" class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 110%; margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; text-align: center;"><br /></div><br /><div align="center" class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 110%; margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; text-align: center;"><span style="font-family: "Microsoft PhagsPa", "sans-serif"; font-size: 11pt; line-height: 110%;">Sonnet 116 by William Shakespeare</span><span lang="EN-US" style="color: black; font-family: "Verdana", "sans-serif"; font-size: 11pt; line-height: 110%; mso-ansi-language: EN-US;"></span></div>

The History of Valentines Day

Every year, the fourteenth day of February sees all of us, no matter what age or sex, scurrying about organising surprises, no matter how bi...

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